If this helped, you can help keep it up
The internet is full of content that profits from outrage about narcissism — videos, courses, “expert” checklists that exist to keep you scared and scrolling. This site makes nothing from any of that. No ads, no affiliate links, no upsell. It exists because someone thought blokes deserved an honest, calm answer.
One-off, any amount, no account needed. Skint? Sharing a page that helped you is worth just as much.
Last reviewed: 3 June 2026. General information, not medical advice.
Where the money goes
This is a small, deliberately cheap site to run. What people chip in covers:
- The domain and hosting.
- Keeping the content reviewed and current (the “last reviewed” dates aren’t for show).
- Running the extras that cost real money — the moderated Stories section and the AI screening behind it — and building what’s next.
Chipping in doesn’t buy advice, a reply, or anything personal — and it never changes what we write. It just keeps an ad-free, no-diagnosis site online for the next bloke who gets the word thrown at him.
If money’s tight or things feel heavy right now, don’t give us anything — put yourself first. Being called a narcissist isn’t an emergency, but if it’s sitting heavy, here’s where to get real help.
Other ways to help
- Share it. Send a page to someone who needs it, or drop the link where blokes actually are.
- Tell us what’s wrong. A correction or an out-of-date helpline keeps the site honest — see the about page.
- Sponsor it. If you run a counselling service, app or practice that fits, see partner with notnpd.